Readers say they will never forgive a spouse who cheats regularly
Nimi has always been a very supportive wife and would not hesitate to give a helping hand to her husband, Timi, even in very difficult times.
But
 she was shocked beyond imagination when she found out that the money 
she lent her husband was used to secure an apartment for his mistress.
Read her sad story here:
"My
 name is Nimi, a 32-year-old married woman with three lovely kids. I 
have been married to Timi for eight years now and we have always had a 
happy marriage, or so I thought, because some months ago, I found out 
that my husband has been cheating on me severally with different women.
I
 have always trusted Timi to the point of discarding any rumour I heard 
about him and other women. Even when my close friends told me tales of 
how they saw him with one woman or the other, I never believed them 
because I felt my husband would never cheat on me.
After
 all, I often reasoned, what did the other women have that I do not 
have? What could they give him that I could not? I made sure I satisfied
 my husband in everything, so what would he be looking for in other 
women?
 I am a very good cook and make his
 best meals with great care; I take care of him like a mother would; I 
give him the hottest sex anytime he wants; so I never fathomed that my 
Timi could ever cheat on me.
I am a very good cook and make his
 best meals with great care; I take care of him like a mother would; I 
give him the hottest sex anytime he wants; so I never fathomed that my 
Timi could ever cheat on me.
But I now 
know that if a man wants to cheat on you, it does not matter what you 
do, he will still cheat. This reality dawned on me when I found out that
 Timi rented an apartment for his mistress with the money he borrowed 
from me.
When we got married, we had made
 a vow to support each other and whenever Timi was down and needed 
money, I would even take a loan in my office to give to him and vice 
versa.
So when he told me about four 
months ago that he needed N600,000 to invest in an importation business 
he and his friends were going into, I did not hesitate to get him the 
money, after all, I believed it would be for the good of the family.
You can then understand my shock when I discovered that he actually used the money to rent an apartment for another woman.
It was my childhood friend, Tolumonye
 who told me that she had been seeing my husband in a particular house 
on her street and most times, he would stay there for a long time.
I
 did not still believe her until she invited me one day to come and see 
things for myself. I left my office and went to Tolu's place and she 
took me to the compound and lo and behold, I saw Timi's car parked right
 there.
I did not want to create a scene 
and left with Tolu to her house to wait. Timi left several hours later, 
and that was when it dawned on me that he was actually cheating on me. 
When
 I got home, I did not confront him on my findings but Tolu and I 
carried out underground investigations and later realized that it was 
Timi who rented the apartment for the woman.
When
 I now confronted him with the facts, he confessed that he actually used
 the money he borrowed from me to rent the apartment for the woman and 
begged for forgiveness.
But I am 
shattered and don't think I can ever forgive him for what he did. Timi 
has shattered my trust for him and I find it difficult to ever trust him
 again.
Nimi."
The teaser for the day was:
How Nigeria voted:
I will never forgive him/her - 41%
I will forgive him/her if he confesses - 35%
That will be the end of the marriage - 24%
What would your vote be here?
 
 
 
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